The past year has been the biggest, most important of my life. In November of 2012, Marco and I found out we were expecting a baby. We had been working with a doctor for a few months, and on October 29th, we had some help. Anyone who has questioned their own fertility knows how difficult those doctor’s visits can be, and they said I had a 5-20% chance of getting pregnant. My age was a big factor, because I was already 35. Anyway, I was nauseous all day on November 12th, and I finally tested on November 16th. Positive!! I laid out the test and a special Darth/Godfather onesie I had purchased to surprise Marco. Our adventure had begun!
I’m not sure what worked for us. Maybe it was acupuncture, or modern science, timing, or a wonderful trip to New York in September that did it, or maybe a combination of all of those things. No doubt we owe a great deal of gratitude to the Kaiser Garden Grove Infertility Department, and to Profound Youth Acupuncture in Corona, but the New York trip really helped us relax and forget about trying to have a baby for a little while.
These photos really tell the story. We had the time of our lives! We may have spent a little too much money, but it didn’t matter. We saw the sights, and we were able to have dinner with our friends at the famous Momofuku Ssäm Bar. We called it “pork and cocktails,” and it was one of the best dinners we have ever had.
At 6 weeks, we went for an ultrasound, and there it was! A tiny heartbeat in the middle of a grainy peanut on the black and white screen. Only one, thank goodness, because the doctor said we could have had four. Four! Maybe we could have had our own TV show?? Marco instantly said he was “going public,” and started posting on Facebook. He was one happy father-to-be.
And thus began our “Babymoon.” We headed to New Orleans for a work conference for me in December, and Marco spent the three days wandering the French Quarter and taking photos. He even got to attend a Saints game while I was in a workshop. Our evenings were delightful there, and we will definitely be going back. Perhaps the most wonderful thing about NOLA is that there are people playing brass instruments on street corners, at all hours of the day. Brass! Not just a guitar or drums, but brass!
The art and colors of the city are just beautiful, also. Here are a couple of photos Marco took on his walks:
But if you are traveling to NOLA, the best thing, really the BEST thing, is the food. The art, music and spirit of the city are all combined in the food. We had some great meals, like gumbo and jambalaya, but the most delicious were the oysters that were grilled with a butter, garlic, and parmesan crust. To die for.
One of the things I decided during my pregnancy was that I would enjoy it. I was lucky, and I only experienced a few days of nausea, and my main complaints were increased sensitivity to smells (taking out the garbage really turned my stomach) and I couldn’t stand the taste of chicken. I had no strange cravings…just a lot of ground beef! I followed Princess Kate and Kim Kardashian…both got pregnant about a week before me. I felt so bad for Kate…so sick and uncomfortable! And Kim gained so much weight…made me feel good about myself!
In April, we found out we were expecting a boy. In that instant, everything changed. Marco, teary-eyed and excited, couldn’t wait to announce it. I was more reserved. I was happy, but I had just spent a few days holding two baby girls, and getting a little attached to them. It was time to adjust my expectations, and start getting excited about holding a little boy! From the ultrasound, it looked like he had his dad’s nose and hands.
We started doing pictures of my belly, but I was reluctant to do the bare-belly pics at first.
This was a photo shoot with Marco at 22 weeks:
At 26 weeks, I took 3rd place in a pool tournament at a friend’s birthday party (I had a bye, and two of my opponents scratched on the 8 ball…I am not a good pool shark!):
This is another friend’s birthday party at 27 weeks. That’s a special, sparkly, non-alcoholic drink they found for the pregnant girl:
Here’s a shot from another photo shoot with Marco at 27 weeks, at the Great Park in Irvine:
At 28 weeks, we traveled to Montana for my cousin’s wedding. It was beautiful, and we had a wonderful time!
I wore my regular clothes as long as I could, but eventually the belly forced its way out. At 30 weeks, Marco took this:
At 33 weeks, I had my first of 3 baby showers:
And at 34 weeks, we had another photo shoot (yes, that is a broken cement deer in our front yard):
At 36 weeks, we went to Disneyland to celebrate my birthday. We stuck to slow rides and the Tiki Room, but it was very fun! Here’s a video Marco took as I ate the ice cream he bought me: